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Friday Favorites {4.20.18}

It’s Friday! If only every day could be as happy as a fist-full of cotton candy on a spring day! My hopes are that your Friday is at least as happy as this picture. Today I’ll be celebrating Earth Day with my son at his school at lunchtime. The huge celebration is packed with 901rock decorating, crafts, reading time (Earth Day books of course!) and music- I love that they put so much effort into celebrating this special day. My son will also be playing his first baseball game coached by my husband- I’m snack mom this week and we’re bringing oranges and Pirates Booty at the request of my son (every 5-year-olds’ dream!)

We also have lots of other fun things planned this weekend- I am stoked it’s Friday!

Here are some things to ponder around the web.

Some states are now raising the bar on restaurant labor laws– a step up from my $2.13 an hour server days.

We have been binge watching this Netflix show.

Self-care– are we all doing it wrong?

This hopeful prayer

My friend had on Rothy shoes and gave me a demo on my porch- ha! Makes me want to buy some! They’re washable and bendable and made out of recycled material.

AND I have this ‘ole ab workout video on repeat #summergoals

What are you up to this weekend? We’re hoping the weather pans out! Have a lovely two days.

Family, Uncategorized

5 Fun Things {4.3.18}

Hey hey! How’s your week going? I’ve been saving up some fun things I stumbled upon (around the web) and this week is a great week for a pick-me-up. Here are 5 fun things (plus 1)- check it out if you’d like to see!

Fleeing desk jobs for the farm life

Breakfast for Dinner-yes please!

Morning Motivation -made me pumped!

My new (aspiring) dance moves -I can’t stop watching!

Tacos. Tacos. Tacos. -If you’re not obsessed we can’t be friends.

And for those asking and wondering, we’re still in the adoption waiting game. We’re approved and on stand-by for our placement. It could be tomorrow or three years from now- what can I say- we live on the wild side! Please keep us in your thoughts during this waiting period. Happy mid-week!

~Ashley

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Our Adoption Profile Book {3.12.18}

Hello there. We are back from vacation and I’m back to work this week. Post-vacation on a week where we loose an hour is a little rough, but we’re hanging in there. The extra sunshine we’ll be gaining each day sure will be worth it!

We were home study approved for our adoption a few days before we left for vacation and we had already printed our profile book, so I dropped the copies by our agency office and then we headed out on a flight the next day to beautiful South Florida. The day before we arrived home from vacation we received an email from our social worker “There’s a mom who has already birthed a baby girl and we will be placing her next week. Can we show her your book?” We had less than 24 hours to respond and we said yes! We were excited, but also experiencing that nervous feeling like: “are we going to come back from vacation and get a baby?”

Unfortunately we didn’t get a call about that placement, but I thought it would be fun to share our profile book if you’d like to see. We are currently home study approved for infant adoption in the US. I know I researched a lot of books before I put ours together so I thought I’d share our final version just in case someone out there is trying to prepare their book and is looking for ideas! We used mixbook to create it- I’ve used them before for family photo books and I love them. They have colorful, easy to use templates.

Our agency gave us some guidelines including what types of pictures to include and which ones to omit. For example, we have a cat, but she never comes out for our kids and we didn’t want to promise anyone that we have a “friendly loving pet” so we just left her out of our book.

Anyhow, I hope you enjoy the book. Feel free to comment below or send me a message through the contact section of this blog if you have any questions we could help answer about our journey so far.

XO Ashley

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Sunday’s Are For Sending Winter Away

This Sunday we had enough. We took a stand to the injustice that is otherwise known as the never ending winter and we had ice cream- gasp!

First we headed to one of our favorite parks and played away most of our winter blues. And then I didn’t want it to end so I suggested ice cream. My family started walking over to the ice cream truck and I steered them over to the car- “we are not eating ice cream there, get in the car!”

We headed over to Sweet Noshings, a candy, fudge, popcorn, coffee, ice cream shop (they have pretty much everything amazing in life on their menu) and we picked out our ice cream flavors. By the way, I still need to educate my kids that, brown, white and pink are not flavors, but colors, but I let all that slide today. I guess I was also feeling melancholy about the weather because I splurged on a pack of pop rocks and white cheese popcorn.

Here are some pictures of our delightful afternoon if you’d like to see. I completely understand that ice cream is just defeating my ongoing plan to become bathing suit ready, however I’m really trying to partake in some of my kid’s blissful, pleasurable moments and I chalk this day up to a splurge day.

After all that sugar, and the dancing to celebrate the sugar, both kids finished out the evening watching their new favorite show, Clifford the Big Red Dog!

What are you doing to shove winter out the back door? 

PS: If you’re in the Memphis area and haven’t been to Sweet Noshings, check them out. All four of our ice cream flavors were on point and their popcorn was amazing!

~XO Ashley

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Friday Favorites {2.8.18}

Happy Friday- Whoop whoop! Work has been insanely busy and I couldn’t be more ready for the weekend! We are still surviving winter in a big way over here- I am particularly over it and we sure are ready for some warmer weather- however it’s projected to be cold and gloomy again this weekend so our plans will be something indoors. We might head to the movie in theatres now- The Greatest Showman- and we’re scoping out a hands-on, interactive, dinosaur show at the Agricenter this weekend.

I haven’t posted favorites in a while but here’s a little bit of what I’m loving.

I discovered these two recipes during my Whole30 journey and they’re on weekly repeat at our house now! If you’re doing Whole30 too just minus beans and rice on the second recipe.

Click here

and here

My new go-to workout is Pure Barre! My back was really killing me due to sitting at work all day. I was going to the chiropractor every month but I have not been back in 3 months due to Pure Barre! It’s a lot of planking, core work and stretching that I think was missing from my life. This workout can get expensive but they always have a special going on that makes it a little more economical. It’s been worth it for me, and my back, to have a stronger core!

My kids are real comedians at this age and I’ve been blogging a lot lately about our life, and our humor.

Click here to read about my son’s 3 medals and here to read all about how my daughter is asking everyone she encounters all about their age!

If you’re looking to create a collection, here are some details to consider.

Plus if you’re interested- I give you permission to nap!

I found these Brazi bites at my local Fresh Market and I’m in love- they had me at cheese and bread. It’s been about 6 years since I’ve visited Brazil, but as far as I can tell these little bits of heaven aren’t too far off the mark from the originals. You can find them in the freezer section. They’d be great appetizers if you’re needing to bring a side for a potluck.

I hosted our dinner club last weekend at my house- apps and game night was the theme. It was so much fun! Everyone brought and app and a game and the food spread we ended up with was something I just would never have accomplished on my own! One of the crowd favorites were these Parmesan cheese bites! One of my friends described them as “little bites of heaven”.

Other than that I’m also loving these two pictures, but I’m partial!

I hope you’re having a great week so far. Be sure to comment all about what you’re loving right now!

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Spicing Up a Winter Weeknight

Recently we’ve been stuck inside due to plummeting temperatures and early sunsets and I can’t help but get desperate for summer. Our favorite evening ritual is finishing an early dinner and walking our neighborhood or sitting in our backyard while we grill out and the kids play.

But winter has us binge watching kids Netflix shows, checking off home “to do lists” and heading to bed early. And while sometimes it can feel a little mundane, I try to remember that this is the season for us to catch up on our rest and get energized for the warmer months.

However, winter work evenings don’t have to be a desperate dud. Darling be Daring mentions that spicing up the work week can mean focusing on an elaborate recipe you’ve been wanting to make including trekking out to buy all the fresh ingredients or adding a workout routine that’s interactive and adds variety.

Sheknows.com has some creative ideas doable for weeknights such as playing dress-up as a family with old and silly outfits and hosting a “show and tell” family evening.

Refe Tuma turns the entire month of November into Dinovember where he says, “Every year, my wife and I devote the month of November to convincing our children their plastic dinosaur figures come to life while they sleep.” It’s an elf on the shelf meets Jurassic Park!

Simply Kierste Design Co. suggests taking one of your kids on a date night to the grocery store or a progressive dinner to different restaurants, one for each course. Folding paper airplanes and testing them is another idea she shares that I could definitely get onboard with.

And finally, after my son begged me to help me with my laundry and seeing how great he’s become at folding, I’m not so sure this dreaded chore can’t be spiced up a little with his company. This article makes me feel even better about this new laundry routine.

So far our most fun, cold-weather, weeknight, evenings include my daughter serving us pretend food and coffee from her mini-kitchen, rowdy rounds of duck-duck-goose, trips to our favorite neighborhood pizza joint, and the occasional celebration prep for “family parties” we’ve arranged just for the four of us. I’ve promised my son we will be having a family Valentine’s party soon.

How do you spend your winter weekdays?

~Ashley

 

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How Old Are You?

My two year old is into asking everyone “How old are you?”

I don’t have the heart to tell her, some people think it’s rude to ask about age, because lately she’s been using this question as her conversation icebreaker. I figure, if people don’t want to answer her question they’ll tell her.

I want her to know that people come in all ages and I want her to feel comfortable talking with people older than her. So here’s how some people have responded to her question.

Our adoption social worker told her, “Well that’s easy for you to remember, I’m 5 5, fifty five.” I loved how confident she was at owning her age.

A parent at Graham’s school, originally from China answered, “Noooo I can’t tell you that!” as she laughed nervously and hurried off.

Today she asked my husband [I think she asks him this question twice a day] and he answered his usual, “I’m forty, how old are you?” And then my son chimed in excitedly, “I am going to pretend I’m forty today”. And my daughter responded, “me too, I’m forty!” How endearing that they want to be exactly as old as their dad. It must mean he makes forty look fun!

I hope my kids learn to appreciate the benefits of every age and that they’re not put off by wrinkles and walkers and age spots. I want them to respect their elders and I can only hope that if a kid asks me my age that I’ll reply certainly and confidently with my answer.

Family, Health

Do You Nap?

The last couple weeks have been intense. We’ve been going through a phase where my youngest wakes up screaming in the middle of the night which has left us all a little bit run down during the day. This, coupled with the winter sniffles, has us adults pitching our case for the nap train.

It starts around Saturday at 11, and we both list our reasons why each of us should have the right to nap with the youngest- she’s the only one that still takes an afternoon snooze. And whoever wins their case is awarded the two hour luxury nap complete with private accommodations, a soft blanket and a sound machine.

Honestly, as a working mom this two-hour weekend nap has become a little bit of an addiction. It’s one of the only times I stop mid-day to recharge and it leaves me feeling energized for our Saturday afternoon plans. It’s indulgent and revitalizing and just what my body needs to complete the week.

Do you make midday nap plans? What’s your weekly relaxation ritual?

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Hello! {1.14.18}

Hi- It’s been a little while since I’ve been in touch. We’ve been making our way through January and it’s taken a quick minute to get a jump start on this new year.

I do have something exciting to share! Whimsical September blog (founded by Erica) featured me this weekend and I’m just so excited about it. GO right on over to her site and check it out. And while you’re there, go ahead and look around. Her site is fun, I enjoy her Instagram stories and she also features other bloggers like me in her Saturday Sit-Down series. Thanks again to Erica for her support!

If you’re new here and found me from Whimsical September, WELCOME!

Here’s what’s new with us.

We are in the very tail end of our home study for adoption. We have our home visit the end of this month and so we are on a cleaning frenzy over here! We’re working on our profile book now.

We are full swing back into school and work, but we just loved our Christmas stay-cation which we’ve decided to do again next year for Christmas (stay home, lay around, relax, repeat).

I celebrated my birthday last week and then I started the Whole30 program the day after- eek! I’m on “Kill All the Things” part 2.

We had a two days of snow Friday and Saturday- and for Memphis that might be it for the year! We took full advantage, making a mini snowman, busting out some snow angels, and making all the snowballs.

We took our kids bowling for the first time this weekend to kill the cabin fever- it was so much fun! Stay tuned for more on that soon.

A new restaurant popped up on our radar that I’ll be blogging about soon, so stay tuned. We made a visit right before my Whole30 plunge.

We’re already planning our spring break, can you believe it’s mid-January? March will be here before you know it. Right now we’re thinking somewhere within driving distance, but we’re torn. Nashville? New Orleans?

In the meantime, check out Erica’s sit-down and follow me on Instagram or Facebook. I’ve also been sharing Insta-stories to keep you posted on fun stuff we’re into.

Have a great week!

~Ashley