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Friday Favorites {5.17.18}

Hey hey, it’s Friday! We have graduations, end of work fiscal year crunch and last week of school all crammed into the next few days- whew! I’m ready for pool weather and vacation, and selfishly I can’t wait to take the week off from making school lunches.

This week I’m sharing my favorites! Take a look if you’d like to see.

There is nothing more that I love than a clean home. That’s why I love, love Clean Mama! Follow her on Instagram too and she’ll get you inspired to clean your house from top to bottom through her daily and weekly challenges.

I think I’ve said this before, but it’s worth repeating. I am totally and completely sucked into the world traveler bloggers- the ones who sell everything they own and travel the world. Right now my favorite family is the Bucket List Family and they recently posted a new enlightening, but extremely frightening, video of the father swimming with tiger sharks (uncaged). Would you do it?

The royal wedding is this weekend- eek! Are you watching? Here’s a cheat sheet on the royal family tree with details on the succession line. And just in case you’re looking for a hat to celebrate the occasion, here are the Biggest and Best Royal Wedding hats of all time.

Isn’t this one interesting?


This summer we are taking the kids to their first waterpark- they’re finally old enough. Check out this list of the best waterparks around the US.

Doesn’t this slide in the Enchanted Forest Water Safari look like so much fun!

Plus, what a cute kids 4th of July shirt! I’m ready to put all the things red, white and blue in my shopping cart and run full speed into a vacation sunset.

Finally, if you’re staying home for Memorial week, check out Real Simple’s tips for having a staycation.

Have a fun weekend!


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Be a Piece of Our Puzzle

Adoption is puzzling so this fundraiser is fitting! We are home study approved and waiting to complete our family with one more child through adoption. Right now we’re on the list with an agency in Texas and preparing for placement with a fundraiser, because ya’ll adoption is expensive! With fees upwards of $40,000 or more, and an unpaid maternity, due to medical leave being out of the equation with adoption, we thought we’d put together a fun fundraiser. We could get a call about our child any day!

We can’t wait to bring baby P home from Texas, so a Tennessee state puzzle was the perfect fit since we just love our state.

Here’s how it works:

  • Purchase a puzzle piece
  • We’ll put your name on the back of the piece you’ve purchased
  • When the puzzle is complete, we will frame it and hang it in the baby’s room
  • Puzzle pieces are $30 and if you’d like to contribute you can make payment to our YouCaring page or through paypal. If you’re interested in making a large contribution, email me directly and we can work to accommodate a tax receipt.

The puzzle has 150 pieces and we have 145 left to sell!

We can’t wait for this child to be loved on by our community of friends and family and we’re excitedly awaiting our match and placement.

XO ~Ashley

PS: Why we’re adopting.

PSS: Our adoption profile book.


The Perfect Group Gift

It’s the end of the school year, and these I’m always running to the store or shopping online for some sort of gift- teachers, graduates, boss’ birthday, birthday parties. End of the year work and school gifts can be especially tricky. Who coordinates and how much should you collect? It can be a real head scratcher. This year, I signed up to be my son’s class mom, and low and behold, I realized this December that that I was responsible for coordinating fifteen Christmas gifts for teachers, assistants, and aftercare teachers on top of my regular Christmas shopping. It had me feeling a tad bit overwhelmed.

Then when my son’s teacher recently announced her retirement, I remembered a fun way to coordinate a gift- group favorites! One person coordinates the basket and asks others to bring one of their favorite items. You can stick with a theme, such as favorite food or favorite beauty product, or you can make it more general, just bring your favorite item. Friends or co-workers bring the items and the organizer assembles the basket, displaying all the favorites together from the team, and viola- simple group gift is complete. It’s an easy idea because a lot of times you’re all stocked up on your favorite items and tend to have extra, or your favorites are right along your weekly path (can be found along your weekly shopping trip or at a nearby store). No one person gets stuck holding the bag on coming up with the idea or being responsible for the shopping.

One year for Christmas we organized a favorite’s basket for a boss complete with a container of homemade pancake mix, favorite nuts, cloth napkins, a notebook and some delicate cookies from Brussels. Our boss loved it and she said she tasked her teenage girls with making the pancakes for the family on Christmas morning.

Next time you’re having headache about organizing a group gift, propose a favorite’s basket.

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Friday Favorites {5.4.18}

Hey hey it’s Friday! And this weekend it’s Cinco de Mayo so what could be better than an excuse to eat tacos and drink margs? We’re having friends over for dinner and I’m praying the weather is magical. Here are some fun/interesting things around the web that I’m currently loving. I hope that wherever you are, your weekend plans are just as magical.

Since it’s Cinco de Mayo I thought I’d share two of my favorite recipes. These margaritas and these barbacoa tacos are helping me live my best life.

Just in case you were wondering: Do hats cause baldness?

What??? They are banning sunscreen in Hawaii!

Memphis, TN (our hometown) made the list, amoungst other spots, of top places to visit in May!

We have been watching Planet Earth on Netflix with the kids- my daughter asks 1.5 million questions about all the animals. She also narrates the entire show. (now the monkey is climbing, oh wait, now he is jumping- hehe).

Also, I cannot stop watching Narcos. Can’t stop! I was mildly obsessed with Pablo Escobar’s life before the show, but now I can’t stop googling him. (No one else googles moderate to extreme psycho killers and kidnappers when they can’t sleep? Just me then?)

I’m also reading this book.

Memphis debuted it’s first food hall a few months ago. Do you have one in your hometown? Think Eataly in New York. Here are a few new ones that opened over the last few years- 17 Most Anticipated Food Halls.

A food hall is “a far cry from the suburban shopping mall food courts that hit their stride in the 1970s and are now falling into decline, these multi-faceted, typically indoor markets showcasing a variety of local food vendors and artisans have long been a tradition in Europe — and they’re finally hitting it big in America.”– Eater online magazine.


I had my first nutella cookie this week- honestly I don’t know how life was worth living before that moment. Here’s a fun nutella cookie recipe I’ll be trying.

And here’s a little bit of life lately that I shared earlier this week.

Have a lovely weekend.





Life Lately {4.30.18}

Hey hey (sad face) it’s Monday. We had such a beautiful weekend and we hated for it to end.
Here’s a little bit about what we’ve been up to if you’d like to see…
Baseball has been rained out almost every weekend, and on the off weekends the fields have been wet, BUT my son finally had his first game and my husband made his debut as a coach. My daughter and I cheered them on!
We made the most of the sunny weather and had a little picnic at the park, played some corn hole, followed later by ice cream.
The kids are obsessed with picking flowers (ahem weeds) and putting them in their hair.

We have a birds nest in my son’s favorite climbing tree. Downfall, he can’t climb the tree, but the upside is the kids have seen the eggs hatch into birds and we get to check out feeding time while the mother bird works her butt off finding worms for her little family. My son keeps asking- “where’s the daddy bird???” I mean honestly, where is that guy?
We went to our first baseball game of the season, and the kids got high-fives and waves from the Redbirds mascot Rocky.
We rode the new carousel at the Memphis Children’s Museum (which is actually a restored antique).
We booked our next vacation on a farm. My son is getting stoked about horse-back-riding and my daughter can’t wait to see the bunny farm.
Earlier this month, we checked out the Memphis ballet production of Peter Pan, and the kids won’t stop talking about. (So much so, we ended up watching the movie Hook last week and now they’re more obsessed). We get all these questions (daily): Where is Captain Hook, what happened to his hand, why does the crocodile make that ticking sound, can you believe the crocodile ate Captain Hook???
We have been taking advantage of “kids eat free” spots in Memphis.
(Belly Acres- Kids Eat Free Wednesdays)
Finally, my husband and I had a date night where we got to sleep in our own house for the evening (and sleep IN the next morning) without kids! We tried out a new spot for drinks- Carolina Watershed and we love it!
That pretty much sums up our life lately. We are so happy our weather here is starting to act springlike. Only a few more weeks of school and its summer!
Career & Resources, Family, Uncategorized

Friday Favorites {4.27.18}

Happy weekend. What are you up to? We have a new rock wall gym in our town and I’m dying to try it. The last time I’ve been rock wall climbing was in college- we used to have on in our campus gym. Have you been climbing?

We just signed up for Filter Easy and our filter came yesterday! We have not changed our air filter in over a year- eeks! It is time!

Building a business from the ground up is for the birds 

Have you tried trunk club? My husband and I both ordered a box this month. Amongst other things, these shoes were in his trunk and this dress was in mine!

How pretty is this hoop wreath?

We just booked our next vacation on a farm– would you do it?

Now that it’s Friday- what ticked you off this week?

AND we have this family movie on repeat- it’s so cute! We can’t stop watching it- makes me want to travel to Mexico again- pronto!

Finally, the article that made me cry happy tears. Human compassion at its finest.

Are you up to anything fun this weekend? I hope it’s a great one!

Family, Food & Wine, Uncategorized

Get Your Farm On

We are exploring vacations and I stumbled upon this site:

A few years ago we actually stayed on a bee farm in Big Sur, California and it was one of the greatest vacations we’ve ever booked.

Every morning we woke up to peek outside and watch the bee workers outside in their large white, head-to-toe, beekeeper attire, tending to their early morning duties. Each evening we watched the sun set while we overlooked the Pacific Ocean from our elevated deck chairs just off the side deck of our living area. And during the day we spent our time hiking, and exploring and hoping into eco-friendly restaurants and delicious hometown bakeries.

We received fresh eggs and honey, composted our waste for the chickens, picked fresh lemons, limes and oranges, and walked the redwood forest trail on the property, a path the owners had cleared themselves. Perched on the claw foot tub, was a homemade bar of lavender soap that filled the entire cottage with an unforgettable, invigorating, aroma.I’m not so sure our experience will be the same at another farm, but we’re anxious to experience nature, let the kids interact with animals, and help educate them on some of the practices that help bring food to our table.

Would you farm on your next vacation? Where would you go?

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Someone Ate the Only Good Thing Going on in My Life

When I was in college I waited tables at a restaurant in my hometown at the beach. The people I worked with were fun and we all went out after work together. Today work seems so much different. When I waited tables our biggest crisis seemed to be which side work we drew each night and who had to fill the ketchups.

The restaurant I worked at was on the third floor of a three-story building and directly below us there was a market. It carried bare minimum essentials for island residents, but they had this homemade banana pudding that they stocked that was AMAZING. Obviously I imagined someone’s grandmother made it and it had to take no less than 24 hours to cook it (honestly I have no idea, but that’s how good it tasted). It was the perfect post-server-shift indulgence. The market closed at 8 pm, so if you wanted to get this sought-after-pudding you had to get to your shift early and stop at the market on your way into the restaurant. Several my fellow restaurant staffers knew this and we took measures to stake our claim on one of the limited supply banana pudding containers on the way up the three flights of stairs. We’d take our pudding, label it with our names with a permanent sharpie marker and stock it in the restaurant kitchen cooler, ready for our retrieval at our evening break.

One night, ready for my break, I went to grab my pudding and it was gone. I was perplexed, we had never had a food theft problem. I started desperately digging through the cooler, sure that someone pushed it to the back during service. And then, I ever so slightly caught a glimpse, out of the corner of my eye, of the assistant manager standing just off to the side of the cooler. He was shoveling banana pudding into his mouth with a grin.

Me: “Did you buy that banana pudding.”

Manager: “No I found it in the fridge.”

Me (steam coming out of my ears): “So you took banana pudding with someone’s name on it out of the fridge.”

Manager: “Don’t be mad. I was hungry.”

Me: (ANGER. Dispair. Steam. Speechlessness.)

Look: I had a lot to learn back then about controlling my short fuse. Today I feel like my kids steal my food on a more regular basis and I’ve never reacted to them the same way I stared that guy down with the deadliest and most disgusted eyes that I hoped would laser puncture his bullheaded noggin. I climbed three flights of stairs for that pudding, paid for it with my measly server tips, I had sore feet from working my shift and someone with entitlement and disrespect claimed it. It was JUST LIKE the Friends episode where someone steals Ross’ sandwich- “Someone ate the only good thing going on in my life!” (clip here)

So here’s my question. What ticks you off? A friend at work laughs at me because I get so worked up when people run unorganized meetings and I get irked when friends habitually cancel plans without a good excuse (I feel like I am managing these scenarios well without having to engage a therapist) plus add food theft to my list of annoyances (I mean what are you an animal?) I can be a little intense. So what’s got you seeking anger management intervention? What goes against your grain? What’s your banana pudding?


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Friday Favorites {4.20.18}

It’s Friday! If only every day could be as happy as a fist-full of cotton candy on a spring day! My hopes are that your Friday is at least as happy as this picture. Today I’ll be celebrating Earth Day with my son at his school at lunchtime. The huge celebration is packed with 901rock decorating, crafts, reading time (Earth Day books of course!) and music- I love that they put so much effort into celebrating this special day. My son will also be playing his first baseball game coached by my husband- I’m snack mom this week and we’re bringing oranges and Pirates Booty at the request of my son (every 5-year-olds’ dream!)

We also have lots of other fun things planned this weekend- I am stoked it’s Friday!

Here are some things to ponder around the web.

Some states are now raising the bar on restaurant labor laws– a step up from my $2.13 an hour server days.

We have been binge watching this Netflix show.

Self-care– are we all doing it wrong?

This hopeful prayer

My friend had on Rothy shoes and gave me a demo on my porch- ha! Makes me want to buy some! They’re washable and bendable and made out of recycled material.

AND I have this ‘ole ab workout video on repeat #summergoals

What are you up to this weekend? We’re hoping the weather pans out! Have a lovely two days.

Family, Uncategorized

5 Fun Things {4.3.18}

Hey hey! How’s your week going? I’ve been saving up some fun things I stumbled upon (around the web) and this week is a great week for a pick-me-up. Here are 5 fun things (plus 1)- check it out if you’d like to see!

Fleeing desk jobs for the farm life

Breakfast for Dinner-yes please!

Morning Motivation -made me pumped!

My new (aspiring) dance moves -I can’t stop watching!

Tacos. Tacos. Tacos. -If you’re not obsessed we can’t be friends.

And for those asking and wondering, we’re still in the adoption waiting game. We’re approved and on stand-by for our placement. It could be tomorrow or three years from now- what can I say- we live on the wild side! Please keep us in your thoughts during this waiting period. Happy mid-week!